This photo was taken from my office today. Cars, cars everywhere.
I occassionaly open my eyes and look around. I actually try to do this consistently. I find it truly amazing there are so many people going in so many directions all at the same time. Pretty much everyone is on a completely different path from everyone else. Every one starts at their own home and goes to their own work or on their own errands. All the intertwined paths moving at freeway speeds, which, depending on the time of day is slow. Picture it from above on a time lapse camera. Wow!! Dizzying. (Yes, that is how you spell the actual word, I had to look it up too.)
Now think about what that same picture would have been 30 years ago, 50 years ago, 100 years ago. Technology, industry, invention. What have we really done to ourselves? If I allow myself to think about the negative effects of some ordinary devices in my life, it staggers my little brain. For example, I have yet to meet someone who thinks cell phones in restaurants and movie theaters is a good thing and yet someone always seems to be on one in those places. What happened to leaving the house and not needing to talk to your significant other or the dog groomer or the friend who wants to chat about their most recent great bargain from Target? When did this change from a convenience device (because being a woman and breaking down on the highway at 10PM is truly scary) to I have to talk on my phone all the way home to my children or husband or the doctor's office or the office because there just isn't enough actual time to spend with them when we are in the same room/house together. Why are we so ADHD that we can't turn off our phones for 15 minutes? We didn't even have these phones just a few years ago and literally, people can't turn them off. A few years ago, I was on a first date. The guy saw me turn off my cell phone and he literally didn't know what to do with that. He didn't quite know how to handle it. IT WAS A FIRST DATE and he can't turn off his phone for two hours. I felt pretty important, just kidding. Needless to say, no more dates for him.
Have we really thought about the convenience items we purchase? I am not rallying for everyone donning overalls and a straw hat, don't get me wrong. Think about the days not so long ago when we had fewer 'convenience' items which are designed to make our lives easier and we spent time with family at the dinner table or in the street playing with our friends. We don't do those things much any more. In order to live the American dream these days, all the adults in the house have to work. There's no one at home raising the children. We rush home after work, talking on the phone the entire way, change clothes to get in a work out, do some laundry, clean the cat box, pull a few weeds in the yard, try to figure out what dinner will be, eat it in front of the television, clean up and what do you know, its 9:30 and its time to fold the laundry, brush and floss, shower, pick up a few things that need to be put away and crawl into bed with maybe a few minutes to read and 'relax' before trying to catch a few zzz's. Now that's my typical evening, I can't fathom what a parent has to add to the list... picking up child, homework, after school activities, making lunches, and stuff I can't even think of. Where is the quality time? Where is the convenience?
Whew, my brain is really working overtime the last couple weeks. Remember that change I was looking for? Searching for? Anxiously awaiting? Well, it might be here. I've been reading. And I'm not turning into an earth muffin nut, but I have decided to make some positive changes in my life in the arena of food. I try to be healthy as a general rule, but I've decided to take it to the next level. Isn't that what we do as Americans? We strive and achieve? Anyway. Be watching for my metamorphosis in the coming weeks. We'll see.
So, a couple links to give you an idea where I've been and where I'll be going. I'm reading this book by Jane Goodall: Harvest for Hope about eating organically / ethically. One of the things she talks about is Community Supported Agriculture (CSA). The link, well, the link speaks for itself. A wealth of information about local farms with fresh and quite often organic products. Feel free to join me. I feel good things coming from this new adventure.
XO